Thanks

 These are for you.  I want you all to take this gift from the Gulf of Mexico for all your extraordinary comments and positive thoughts regarding my son's situation.

 I picked these up on my walk on the beach....aren't they spectacular?  The sea provides us with so many gifts.  And you my dear blog friends provide me with even more.  I never thought when I went for my walk to clear my head, that I would find the most therapy from all of you.  You comments have brought tears to my eyes, thank you for your honesty and your wonderful thoughts.

We are so, so lucky.  My sons are healthy, we have a home with food and water.  We aren't worried about a tsunami and radiation exposure.  My sons are home right now on spring break, sleeping, safely.  This is a bump in the road for my oldest, and one that I know will make him stronger.  He will come out on top because I think the Universe acts that way.  And you are right something needs to be done about the coach and we are thinking about it.  But for now I am thinking about the best place for my son to swim and blossom under positive coaching.  And I am thinking about how truly lucky I am to have all of you out there in blog land, caring.