One thing that is very important when choosing the place you will retire is the thought processes of the people around you. Many people seek out small towns for their later years, citing the lower cost of living. But what is the cost on other levels?
Will the locals in that place accept your lifestyle? Are people open minded? If you love art and culture, is there an abundance of that in the new place? Is everyone the same religion? Will they judge you if you practice yoga, are a Buddhist, or if your family is Jewish? What if you're not married and you chose not to have children?
My favorite part about retirement is having the time to pursue hobbies. I am close to fantastic kayaking spots, incredible hiking trails, and have access to live performances. I love the symphony, museums, Broadway shows, the ballet, and fine restaurants. I didn't realize how important this would be. I have always worked with other professional artists in my field. They are talented, disciplined and successful. (the creme of the crop.) I still keep in touch with many of these people online and by phone. We are a tribe.
Another thing to consider is your neighbors. Are you comfortable where you are? I have several people on my street who I enjoy chatting with and discussing how our lives are going. There's an easy, relaxed vibe between us. I like the familiarity and comfort of being here.
Often people over fifty sell their homes to move closer to their adult children. This doesn't always work out for them. What if the kids get transferred? There's no going back, once your house has sold. If you are a private person, a city can give you some anonymity. This may suit you better than a tiny town with a vigorous rumor mill. Moving is an expensive proposition, and sometimes it's better to stay where you are.
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